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Buncombe County, NC. Teacher is a Loser

In Buncombe County, North Carolina, if you attend the Enka Middle School, then you better get ready for bullying of a whole new level from teacher, Rex Roland.

It seems that he hasn’t learned, that his role is to educate and nurture the students, to bring out the best he can in each and every one and treat them as if they were real human beings.

He writes little derogatory comments on your papers before he passes them back and has been writing these comments as a way to “Relate” with the students.

He has been writing things like this; “-20% FOR BEING A LOSER” and it was double underlined to top it off.

When I once asked a teacher a question that had already been asked and got a derogatory answer back,  no longer speaking to teachers became my own way of showing that the teachers weren’t worth my time. I was told that “I had asked a stupid question because that question had already been asked once”.

Sorry, I must have missed it, I thought to myself as I sat down humiliated, with the 2nd grade class laughing and no real answer given. Right then I decided  never to talk to another teacher again unless made too, and I never did after that, until college! Up to that point, I had looked up to teachers as being the most smartest and caring people on the face of the earth, other than my parents, but the mental anguish from her reply had hurt me deeply.

Most children look up to teachers as being next to their parents, yours do also, because we tell them directly to do what the teacher says and to pay attention to the teacher, and with assertiveness while doing so.

But comments like he is making, are the kind of things that can hurt a child deeply, and for a long long time to boot.

Apparently this has been going on for some time now, with the principal only being able to stop it for a short period, but it has started back again.

The Buncombe county school district says it’s a personnel matter that is being investigated. What a crock of bunk.

If this teacher is not reprimanded hard, for his derogatory and mentally debilitating comments towards young children, then he is getting away with a crime more than bullying and we should pray that he would give up teaching, so as to never hurt the mental well being of another child ever again.

As parents, we place our childrens physical and mental well being in the hands of individuals we don’t know and if a bad one like Rex Roland slips into the system and is allowed to go on hurting children like he is, than we are opening up the school system for other forms of abuse and bullying that we as parents won’t stand for either!

I hope that HER PARENTS LOOK INTO A CLASS ACTION LAW SUIT AGAINST THE COUNTY, BECAUSE IT APPEARS THAT BUNCOMBE COUNTY HAS FORGOTTEN JUST WHAT INDIVIDUAL RIGHTS OUR CHILDREN ARE ENTITLED TOO! And the girl definitely has a case, and it has been allowed to happen repetitively now.

As for the parents who don’t think there is anything wrong with that type of commenting, just think back when you were told something bad, after expecting something good. It hurt you didn’t it? Well it’s time to step up and back the poor girl as she should be, or maybe the next bad note will be directed towards your kid. Then how will your child feel?

Bankruptnooption.

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  1. RDinMKE
    March 13, 2010 at 11:24 AM

    My child had a teacher like this (he used verbal, emotional and psychological abuse) and unfortunately, according to the school system, there was nothing that could be done because of the teacher’s union and the fact that he was tenured. Unless more parents speak out against this type of behavior then more children will suffer from being bullied by people who have no business being in a classroom. Btw, ‘Loser’ has one O.

    • Bankruptnooption.
      August 28, 2012 at 7:24 PM

      Thanks for the reply, I think a lot of teachers are like this and parents need too start reporting every incident that we or our kids have with them.
      Maybe then things will change.
      Thanks for writing ,
      Bankruptnooption

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